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The Love Elixir of Augusta Stern

By Lynda Cohen Loigman – St Martin’s Press, 2024

This charming novel intertwines meticulously researched history with endearing characters, resulting in a heartwarming story of second chances, family bonds, wit and a touch of magic. Spanning past and present, it transports readers to 1920s Brooklyn, where young Augusta works alongside her father in his pharmacy—an unconventional role for a woman at the time. Her great-aunt Esther, an immigrant steeped in old-world herbal remedies, infuses the pharmacy with wisdom and warmth, creating a community hub where healing transcends science. Esther’s potions hint at something beyond mere chemistry—is there magic in them after all? And was a love potion to blame when Irving, the pharmacy’s delivery boy, abruptly left town, severing a blossoming relationship with Augusta and leaving her heartbroken and guarded? 

Decades pass. Augusta has built a fulfilling life through career and friendships, yet love remains elusive. At 80, she reluctantly steps into retirement, uncertain of her future—until a stunning reunion with Irving reignites questions of forgiveness and rekindled possibilities. With rich historical details and its exploration of love’s endurance, this novel offers a nostalgic and inspiring read. 

 

Nonnas

2025, United States, 109 min. 

After the death of his beloved mother, middle-aged Brooklyn lifer Joe Scarvella (Vince Vaughn) copes by cooking her Italian recipes. Warm memories of delicious food and living room bonhomie spur Joe to buy a shabby, vacant restaurant in Staten Island and hire nonnas—Italian grandmothers—to cook and summon those familial vibes. Yes, there’s a makeover scene. Yes, there’s a food fight in the kitchen. Despite its predictable emotional maneuvers, Nonnas shines in its depiction of four women (Brenda Vaccaro, Talia Shire, Lorraine Bracco and Susan Sarandon) (re)discovering their place in the world. “He’s not using me,” Vaccaro’s feisty character protests to an opponent of Joe’s restaurant. “He’s celebrating me.” The performances and camaraderie of the nonnas is the best part of this uplifting, well-intentioned drama-comedy. Based on a true story.

Honey, Sweetie, Dearie: The Perils of Elderspeak

Elderspeak is a kind of baby talk sometimes used when speaking to older people, especially those living with dementia. Elderspeak is common and it’s alienating. Journalist Paula Span reports that in one study, nursing home staff used elderspeak in 84 percent of interactions with residents. She has suggestions for what to do about it.  KFF Health News posted Span’s column on May 9, 2025. Funding from the Silver Century Foundation helps KFF Health News produce articles (like this one) on longevity and related health and social issues.  

A prime example of elderspeak: Cindy Smith was visiting her father in his assisted living apartment in Roseville, CA. An aide who was trying to induce him to do something— Smith no longer remembers exactly what—said, “Let me help you, sweetheart.”

“He just gave her The Look—under his bushy eyebrows—and said, ‘What, are we getting married?’” recalled Smith, who had a good laugh, she said. Her father was then 92, a retired county planner and a World War II veteran; macular degeneration had reduced the quality of his vision, and he used a walker to get around, but he remained cognitively sharp.

“He wouldn’t normally get too frosty with people,” Smith said. “But he did have the sense that he was a grown-up and he wasn’t always treated like one.”

People understand almost intuitively what “elderspeak” means. “It’s communication to older adults that sounds like baby talk,” said Clarissa Shaw, PhD, a dementia care researcher at the University of Iowa College of Nursing and a co-author of a recent article that helps researchers document its use. “It arises from an ageist assumption of frailty, incompetence and dependence.”

Its elements include inappropriate endearments. “Elderspeak can be controlling, kind of bossy, so to soften that message, there’s ‘honey,’ ‘dearie,’ ‘sweetie,’” said Kristine Williams, PhD, a nurse gerontologist at the University of Kansas School of Nursing and another co-author of the article. “We have negative stereotypes of older adults, so we change the way we talk.”

Or caregivers may resort to plural pronouns: Are we ready to take our bath? There, the implication “is that the person’s not able to act as an individual,” Williams said. “Hopefully, I’m not taking the bath with you.”

Sometimes, elderspeakers employ a louder volume, shorter sentences or simple words intoned slowly. Or they may adopt an exaggerated, singsong vocal quality more suited to preschoolers, along with words like “potty” or “jammies.”

With what are known as tag questions—It’s time for you to eat lunch now, right—”You’re asking them a question but you’re not letting them respond,” Williams explained. “You’re telling them how to respond.”

Studies in nursing homes show how commonplace such speech is. When Williams, Shaw, and their team analyzed video recordings of 80 interactions between staff and residents with dementia, they found that 84 percent involved some form of elderspeak. 

“Most of elderspeak is well intended. People are trying to show they care,” Williams said. “They don’t realize the negative messages that come through.”

For example, among nursing home residents with dementia, studies have found a relationship between exposure to elderspeak and behaviors collectively known as resistance to care.

“People can turn away or cry or say no,” Williams explained. “They may clench their mouths shut when you’re trying to feed them.” Sometimes, they push caregivers away or strike them.

She and her team developed a training program called CHAT, for Changing Talk: three hour-long sessions that include videos of communication between staff members and patients, intended to reduce elderspeak.

It worked. Before the training, in 13 nursing homes in Kansas and Missouri, almost 35 percent of the time spent in interactions consisted of elderspeak; that share dropped to about 20 percent afterward.

Furthermore, resistant behaviors accounted for almost 36 percent of the time spent in encounters; after training, that proportion fell to about 20 percent.

A study conducted in a Midwestern hospital, again among patients with dementia, found the same sort of decline in resistance behavior

What’s more, CHAT training in nursing homes was associated with lower use of antipsychotic drugs. Though the results did not reach statistical significance, due in part to the small sample size, the research team deemed them “clinically significant.”

“Many of these medications have a black box warning from the FDA,” Williams said of the drugs. “It’s risky to use them in frail, older adults” because of their side effects.

Now, Williams, Shaw and their colleagues have streamlined the CHAT training and adapted it for online use. They are examining its effects in about 200 nursing homes nationwide.

Even without formal training programs, individuals and institutions can combat elderspeak. Kathleen Carmody, owner of Senior Matters Home Health Care and Consulting in Columbus, OH, cautions her aides to address clients as Mr. or Mrs. or Ms., “unless or until they say, ‘Please call me Betty.’”

In long term care, however, families and residents may worry that correcting the way staff members speak could create antagonism.

A few years ago, Carol Fahy, PhD, was fuming about the way aides at an assisted living facility in suburban Cleveland treated her mother, who was blind and had become increasingly dependent in her 80s.

Calling her “sweetie” and “honey babe,” the staff “would hover and coo, and they put her hair up in two pigtails on top of her head, like you would with a toddler,” said Fahy, a psychologist in Kaneohe, HI.

Although she recognized the aides’ agreeable intentions, “there’s a falseness about it,” she said. “It doesn’t make someone feel good. It’s actually alienating.”

Fahy considered discussing her objections with the aides, but “I didn’t want them to retaliate.” Eventually, for several reasons, she moved her mother to another facility.

Yet objecting to elderspeak need not become adversarial, Shaw said. Residents and patients—and people who encounter elderspeak elsewhere, because it’s hardly limited to health care settings—can politely explain how they prefer to be spoken to and what they want to be called.

Cultural differences also come into play. Felipe Agudelo, PhD, who teaches health communications at Boston University, pointed out that in certain contexts a diminutive or term of endearment “doesn’t come from underestimating your intellectual ability. It’s a term of affection.”

He emigrated from Colombia, where his 80-year-old mother takes no offense when a doctor or health care worker asks her to “tómese la pastillita” (take this little pill) or “mueva la manito” (move the little hand).

That’s customary, and “she feels she’s talking to someone who cares,” Agudelo said.

“Come to a place of negotiation,” he advised. “It doesn’t have to be challenging. The patient has the right to say, ‘I don’t like your talking to me that way.’”

In return, the worker “should acknowledge that the recipient may not come from the same cultural background,” he said. That person can respond, “This is the way I usually talk, but I can change it.”

Lisa Greim, 65, a retired writer in Arvada, CO, pushed back against elderspeak recently when she enrolled in Medicare drug coverage.

Suddenly, she recounted in an email, a mail-order pharmacy began calling almost daily because she hadn’t filled a prescription as expected.

These “gently condescending” callers, apparently reading from a script, all said, “It’s hard to remember to take our meds, isn’t it?”—as if they were swallowing pills together with Greim.

Annoyed by their presumption, and their follow-up question about how frequently she forgot her medications, Greim informed them that having stocked up earlier, she had a sufficient supply, thanks. She would reorder when she needed more.

Then, “I asked them to stop calling,” she said. “And they did.”

Fraud in Marketplace Enrollment and Eligibility: Five Things to Know

KFF Health News” coverage of longevity and our aging society is supported in part by The Silver Century Foundation.

Authors: Kaye Pestaina, Rayna Wallace, Michelle Long, Meghan Salaga, and Emma Lee

This analysis was updated on July 11, 2025, to reflect enactment of the 2025 budget reconciliation law, which was signed into law on July 4, 2025, and the changes it makes to ACA Marketplace standards.

Rooting out fraud has been one of the primary reasons given for changes to ACA Marketplace enrollment and eligibility standards included in the Trump administration’s final Marketplace integrity and affordability rule (“final regulation”), and in the recently enacted budget reconciliation law. In the final regulation, the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS) points to “dramatic levels of improper enrollment” in Marketplace plans that CMS says have involved fraudulent actions by some agents, brokers, and web brokers. The final regulation and the budget reconciliation law seek to address alleged fraud by instituting new standards for consumers to enroll in Marketplace coverage, from additional paperwork requirements to “verify” a consumer’s estimated household income to obtain advanced premium tax credits (APTC) to significant new administrative steps and new payments for consumers to continue Marketplace coverage. Few changes are made in the final regulation concerning oversight of entities alleged to have engaged in fraudulent activities, and none are included in the budget reconciliation law.

This brief explains what is known about fraud and improper enrollment in ACA Marketplace plans and what the final regulation and budget reconciliation law will do to change current Marketplace enrollment and eligibility standards.

1. The Affordable Care Act (ACA) gives the federal government broad authority to combat Marketplace fraud, alongside existing state oversight of private health insurance.

The Affordable Care Act (ACA) gives the Secretary of the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) the authority to determine appropriate activities to reduce fraud and abuse in the administration of Marketplaces and to investigate Marketplace activity, “in coordination with” the Inspector General (OIG) of HHS. The HHS Secretary oversees these functions through the Center for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS), with at least two CMS offices involved in combating ACA fraud—the Center for Consumer Information and Insurance Oversight (CCIIO) and the Center for Program Integrity (CPI). These agencies, along with the HHS OIG, have a role in protecting the financial and program integrity of ACA programs. The Department of Justice litigates civil and criminal actions involving alleged health care fraud and abuse.

Fraud oversight is just one part of these agencies’ program integrity functions. These agencies are charged with protecting government resources, as well as program beneficiaries (consumers), by making sure that enrollment and required government payments are accurate and provided without delay. This involves ongoing audits of actors involved in the administration of Marketplaces and oversight of all individuals involved in ACA Marketplace enrollment and eligibility—from the agencies that run the program, to consumers and insurers, as well as those who assist in enrolling consumers, from agents and brokers to Navigators.

Improper enrollment or improper government payments of federal subsidies are fraudulent only if there is an intentional act to deceive or misrepresent facts in order to enroll or receive these benefits. The ACA does not have its own definition of “fraud” specific to Marketplace plans, but agencies can look to existing definitions that have been part of Medicare and Medicaid program integrity standards for some time.

In addition to this broad authority to oversee program integrity in the Marketplace, the ACA provides that if an applicant for Marketplace coverage or subsidies “knowingly and willfully” provides false or fraudulent information, the applicant may be subject to a civil penalty of up to $250,000 (smaller penalties apply where a consumer negligently provides false information in applying for Marketplace coverage). The civil penalty extends to “any person,” including an agent or a broker that directly provides false or incorrect information related to a Marketplace enrollment. In addition, any person who receives information from a Marketplace applicant in order to apply for coverage is subject to a civil penalty if they do not keep this information confidential.

The ACA also states that any payments made in connection with Marketplaces are subject to the False Claims Act if these payments include any federal funds. The False Claims Act is a century-old law that is designed to prevent and punish any individual or organization that defrauds the federal government. This could include circumstances where an individual intentionally presents, or causes to be presented, a false or fraudulent claim to the federal government. The ACA increased the penalties available for False Claims Act violations.

Marketplaces were created by the ACA as a platform for individuals to enroll in private insurance coverage and to apply for income-based federal subsidies. While the coverage is private—making it different from the public programs like Medicare and Medicaid, Marketplaces rely on federal dollars to (1) pay for and administer advance premium tax credits (APTCs) and cost-sharing reductions (CSRs) that help most enrollees pay for coverage, and (2) fund the agency, CMS, that runs the federally-facilitated Marketplace (FFM) (HealthCare.gov) for the states that elect not to operate their own Marketplace. CMS, along with the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) (part of the Treasury Department), set up a complex process to determine who is eligible for Marketplace coverage and financial assistance.

Oversight of these processes and the extent of each federal agencies’ authority to police the program at the federal level is still developing, as federal regulators and enforcers interpret and implement existing requirements. Recent federal activity in this area is discussed below.

The federal government functions exist alongside state oversight. States are the primary regulators of the private insurance coverage available in the Marketplaces and 20 states run their own Marketplace. As a result, each state has its own parallel authority to oversee the integrity of the programs they run and have their own fraud and abuse authority to deal with bad actors in the system, including insurers and those that sell insurance for these insurers, such as agents and brokers. As discussed below, states license the agents and brokers that sell Marketplace coverage.

2. Improper enrollment in Marketplace coverage and subsidies is not the same as fraud.

The ACA contains a unique structure for determining eligibility for Marketplace coverage and for eligibility for financial assistance (APTCs and CSRs). Eligibility is largely determined based on the projected household income of a consumer for the coming year—not on the consumer’s past or current income. Specifically, at open enrollment in the fall before the January 1 coverage year, the consumer is asked to estimate what their household income will be in the coming year.

In addition to open enrollment, there are limited special opportunities for individuals to enroll in Marketplace plans during the coverage year. These “special enrollment periods,” or SEPs, allow individuals to enroll in Marketplace coverage and obtain APTCs during the year if they meet specific criteria. Determining eligibility for SEPs also requires consumers to make an educated guess (estimate) about what their total annual household income will be at the end of the year.

Consumers, especially those with low incomes, often face difficulty predicting future income. KFF analysis found that individuals, especially those with low wages and unstable work, experience significant swings in income throughout the year. For those near poverty, predicting annual income may be especially difficult. Many people with incomes just above poverty at the beginning of the year end up below the federal poverty level (FPL) by the end of the year, and conversely, many who start out with incomes below poverty end up with incomes above poverty. Three in five (61%) people with starting incomes below poverty end the year with an income more than 20% different than their income during the first three months of the year. People with incomes below poverty ($15,060 for a single person in 2025) are not eligible for premium tax credits.

In setting up the Marketplace enrollment structure, Congress recognized that an individual’s annual income might end up being higher or lower than what they estimated when they applied for coverage. This difference could mean that a consumer appears to be “improperly enrolled” in Marketplace coverage or “improper payments” of Marketplace subsidies are paid by the federal government, even though the consumer did not intend to deceive or misrepresent their income. Recognizing this possibility, Congress provided for a process to “reconcile” APTC payments at the end of the year, once a consumer’s actual household income is known.

This is how the process works now: If a consumer is eligible for an APTC, these payments are made by the IRS directly to the insurer of the Marketplace plan that the consumer selects. The consumer does not directly receive these APTCs. If an individual’s actual household income at the end of the year was higher than the consumer estimated, the IRS may have paid too much money on behalf of the consumer to the insurer for APTCs. As a result, the consumer must “repay” the IRS the excess premium tax credit when the consumer files their income tax. Congress included provisions in the ACA that prohibit the federal government from requiring individuals below certain income levels to pay the full amount of excess premium tax credits (often referred to as “repayment limits or caps”). The example below illustrates how this works under current law:

Carla is a 27-year-old rideshare driver in Florida who also does seasonal work throughout the year. She estimated her 2024 income at $27,000 (179% of the FPL) and a $3,136 advance premium tax credit (APTC) was applied for Carla to purchase a benchmark Silver plan with a monthly premium of $3,595. She ended up working more that year than she initially expected, and as a result, she earned $37,650 (about 250% FPL), higher than what she estimated it would be. When filing taxes in 2025, she finds out that she should have received only $2,089 in APTC based on her actual income, meaning that her insurer was paid $1,047 more than Carla was eligible for in APTC. Due to her low income, however, Carla is not required to pay the full $1,047 to the IRS. Under repayment caps, Carla pays $950.

In this example, although Carla’s insurer received more APTC amounts than it should have, Carla did not intentionally underestimate her expected income (engage in fraud) in order to gain undue tax credits. She made an estimate that was reconciled at the end of the year when her actual household income was known, following the process Congress created in the ACA. The budget reconciliation law eliminates the repayment limits.

 Agents and brokers are state-licensed professionals who sell health insurance and assist consumers with selecting and enrolling in a health plan. Agents and brokers generally receive commissions from health insurance companies for enrolling individuals in health plans. A “web broker” is an individual or group of agents, brokers or business entities registered with the federal Marketplace that “develops and hosts” a non-Marketplace website that interfaces with the Marketplace to assist consumers with direct enrollment in Marketplace plans. Accusations of fraud have involved actions by these entities to fraudulently enroll consumers in Marketplace coverage in order to obtain commission payments from insurance companies. These fraudulent enrollments typically involve one of the following scenarios:

  • Unauthorized Enrollment: Enrolling an individual in Marketplace coverage without their consent
  • Unauthorized Switching: Switching an individual already enrolled in a Marketplace plan to another Marketplace plan without their consent

Brokers have played a large part in the Marketplace enrollment surge in recent years (Figure 1). According to KFF analysis of CMS data, during open enrollment for the 2021 plan year, brokers assisted 55% of active plan selections in HealthCare.gov states, increasing to 78% for 2024. Approximately one in five of all HealthCare.gov enrollments were “passive” (automatic) re-enrollments during these years (21% for 2021-2023, and 22% for 2024). We do not know how many of those who were automatically re-enrolled may have been assisted by a broker at some point during open enrollment. Broker-assisted enrollment data from 2016 to 2020 are among all HealthCare.gov enrollments, including automatic re-enrollments, so are not directly comparable with the 2021-2024 data. For context, however, 40% of all HealthCare.gov enrollments in 2016 were broker-assisted.

Between January 2024 and August 2024, CMS received 183,553 complaints of unauthorized enrollments, and 90,863 complaints of unauthorized switching of plans sold on the FFM (HealthCare.gov). CMS suspended 850 brokers for reasonable suspicion of fraudulent or abusive behaviors related to unauthorized plan switches and unauthorized enrollments between June and October 2024. Some of the entities suspended were web brokers approved and registered by CMS to host an application for Marketplace coverage on their own websites through processes called direct enrollment (DE) and enhanced direct enrollment (EDE). These functions are discussed below.

CMS took action to resolve the complaints, putting safeguards into place to protect consumers from broker fraud. For example, CMS announced that starting in July 2024, it would block agents and brokers from modifying a consumer’s HealthCare.gov enrollment unless the agent or broker has already assisted the consumer with enrollment in the past. Also, agents and brokers must enter into a three-way call with consumers and the Marketplace Call Center when trying to make changes to an account they are not already associated with.

Fraud allegations brought wide-ranging reactions from Congress in the summer of 2024. Some House Republican leaders called for further investigation, alleging that recent legislative and regulatory changes made to Marketplace rules (specifically, enhanced APTCs and Biden-era regulations aimed at reducing barriers for consumers signing up for Marketplace coverage) created incentives that encouraged Marketplace fraud. Democratic Congressional leaders, on the other hand, introduced legislation aimed at improving oversight and accountability for agents, brokers and marketing entities that engage in fraud.

Consumers sued brokers alleging fraudulent enrollment. In April 2024, consumers (and some brokers) brought class action litigation against specific brokers, web brokers, and marketing companies that generate sales leads (called “lead generators”) alleging, among other things, that the unauthorized switching and enrollment were part of a widespread scheme to obtain broker commissions that resulted in harm to enrollees and to brokers that originally placed an enrollee in coverage before the switch. While the case has since been dismissed, the plaintiffs alleged that the parties involved “created, sold, purchased and/or financed the purchase of leads that deceived consumers into thinking that they would receive cash cards and other cash benefits.” Leads include information such as consumer names and contact information that agents and brokers use to generate business. Many individuals and groups are in the business of lead generation and are not themselves licensed as agents and brokers. They sell or provide this information to those licensed to sell insurance.

How the alleged scheme worked: The complaint alleged a complicated scheme involving multiple parties. Marketing agencies and other individuals developed social media ads that falsely offered free cash rewards. Consumers that clicked on the ad were brought to a landing page where they were asked to provide specific information with the promise of cash. This information was captured and sold to agents and brokers who, using an enhanced direct enrollment platform, enrolled consumers in Marketplace coverage without their knowledge or switched their existing coverage to another plan.

Some brokers involved in the case brought an action against the federal government. In August 2024, TrueCoverage, LLC and Benefitalign LLC, two of the entities that had been sued in the April 2024 litigation and that had been suspended from the ACA Marketplaces, sued HHS and CMS after they were blocked for engaging in conduct that “compromised and placed consumers’ personally identifiable information (“PII”) and the integrity of the Exchanges at risk.” The case was dropped by the plaintiffs in October 2024, following a court decision denying the plaintiffs’ request for emergency relief. The court found that current regulation permits CMS to suspend direct enrollment entities based on “circumstances” that pose a “risk” that is “unacceptable.” Proof that systems have been compromised is not required.

Many suspended brokers were reinstated in 2025, according to CMS. It was reported that by March 2025, CMS had reinstated at least some of the brokers that had been suspended. It is not clear whether the reinstated brokers had demonstrated to HHS that they had remedied the cause of the suspension, as required in a regulation finalized by the Biden administration in January 2025. In June 2025, CMS released a Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) document related to the removal of more than 1,000 brokers from its agent/broker suspension and termination list.

While these fraud allegations received nationwide attention in 2024, federal investigations of agents and brokers date back to at least 2018 (before the availability of enhanced APTCs and the Biden administration’s enrollment changes). Law enforcement action against agents and brokers include allegations of activity as far back as 2018. For example:

  • The Justice Department, in February 2025, charged two individuals with intentionally enrolling consumers in fully subsidized Marketplace plans between 2018 and 2022 that they were not eligible for in order to obtain commission payments. The indictment alleges that the individuals used misleading and deceptive sales tactics that targeted low-income individuals and provided false addresses and social security numbers. The trial is scheduled for later this year.
  • Another recent Justice Department indictment alleges similar activity dating back to 2019.
  • Annual HHS/DOJ reports on health fraud and abuse enforcement note investigations of agents and brokers going back to 2019. For example, the annual report on fraud enforcement activity for FY 2019 noted that CMS “reviewed cases of agent and broker misconduct and took administrative actions including terminating CMS’s agreements with agents and brokers and imposing civil monetary penalties on those agents and brokers who were found to have engaged in misconduct.” An FY 2023 report stated that CMS had received over 73,000 consumer complaints involving such misconduct as consumers being enrolled in federal Marketplace policies without their consent. That year, CMS “conducted over 80 investigations of outlier and high-risk agents and brokers, and made recommendations for administrative action, including suspension and termination of an agent’s and/or broker’s registration to sell policies on the FFM.”

4. Agents and brokers (including web brokers) who assist in Marketplace enrollment are regulated by both the federal government and states. 

Clearing the pathway to allow brokers to assist consumers to enroll in Marketplace plans aligns with an ACA goal to increase consumer access to comprehensive health coverage. However, the history of broker-related fraudulent enrollment activity points to the importance of oversight of these entities. This not only protects consumers but also ensures that brokers operating in good faith with adequate control and accountability for the third parties that assist them can still provide enrollment help for Marketplace consumers. Both the federal government and states have authority to regulate agents and brokers.

Federal Marketplace oversight related to brokers’ conduct has developed over time aimed at protecting consumers from fraud, as well as preventing deceitful marketing practices and other potentially harmful conduct. The ACA requires the Secretary of HHS to establish procedures where States may allow agents and brokers to enroll individuals in Marketplace plans and assist them in applying for Marketplace subsidies. With this authority, CMS has developed and continues to update requirements agents and brokers must meet in order to assist consumers to enroll in Marketplace coverage. CMS has developed a framework that is different from CMS agent and broker requirements for Medicare Advantage plans. In Medicare Advantage, the insurers have a legal responsibility to ensure agents and brokers comply with federal (and state) requirements. For Marketplace plans, CMS has set standards to regulate agents and brokers directly, without accountability flowing through the insurers that hire them.

In the early years of ACA Marketplace regulation, rules largely included in annual CMS regulations added a range of requirements including a process for broker termination and suspension, standards for the display of Qualified Health Plan (QHP) information and disclaimers that must be posted when certain QHP information is not available, and standards of conduct for agents and brokers selling plans on the FFM.

New technology allows more consumers to enroll in Marketplaces but raises new concerns. “Direct Enrollment” (DE) is a process that allows insurers and web brokers to enroll consumers in coverage directly from their websites. Initially, the direct enrollment pathway allowed the consumer to start the process on a web broker’s own website, but then had to be redirected back to HealthCare.gov to complete the eligibility application before returning to the web broker site to select a plan. Improved technology has added new enrollment pathways that allow agents and brokers to complete the entire eligibility application and enroll consumers in coverage on their own third-party website platforms, without being redirected to HealthCare.gov. This process is known as “Enhanced Direct Enrollment” (EDE).

Although EDE was praised for its potential to increase HealthCare.gov enrollments, as with any new technology, there are and continue to be concerns about privacy and security of consumer information, the potential for fraud, and the possibility that EDE could lead to consumers receiving inaccurate or misleading information that might affect eligibility determinations and consumer choice. In March 2016, CMS announced its intent to implement this new enrollment pathway in the federally-facilitated Marketplace but delayed implementation of the EDE pathway until 2018 and added new safeguards, including a process for HHS-approved third-party entities to periodically monitor and audit agents and brokers using the DE or EDE pathways.

Use of EDE begins and grows; CMS makes further changes to agent and broker standards. The Trump administration expanded the use of the EDE pathway for the federal Marketplace with CMS’s approval of its first Enhanced Direct Enrollment partner, HealthSherpa, in December 2018.

  • CMS reported that DE and EDE pathways were utilized for 37% of all active HealthCare.gov plan selections during 2021 open enrollment, up from 29% during 2020 open enrollment, attributing its growth to increased use of the EDE pathway. The EDE process has historically only been available in HealthCare.gov states; however, in 2024, Georgia became the first state-based Marketplace (SBM) to partner with EDE entities.
  • HealthSherpa reported that more than 95% of total EDE enrollments came through its EDE implementations during the 2021 open enrollment.
  • CMS implemented Help On Demand, a referral service allowing consumers using HealthCare.gov to request enrollment assistance from licensed agents and brokers.
  • CMS added new requirements specific to issuers, agents, and brokers as direct enrollment grew. In 2019, the Trump administration rescinded a requirement that only HHS-approved auditors conduct third-party audits of these entities, allowing issuers, agents, and brokers to choose their own auditors.

Continuing consumer complaints of unauthorized agent and broker enrollment resulted in further changes to agent and broker oversight. Regulations issued during the Biden administration updated agent and broker oversight requirements, including:

  • In 2023, to address enrollments done without consumer consent, CMS established new requirements that require agents, brokers, and web brokers in the federal Marketplace to verify that the eligibility application information they collected has been reviewed and confirmed by the consumer before submission. Receipt of the consumer’s consent has to be documented by agents, brokers, and web brokers.
  • To clarify the reach of federal enforcement against agents and brokers, standards finalized in January 2025 allow CMS to hold “lead agents”—typically executives or others in leadership of broker agencies –accountable for misconduct or noncompliance that they direct or oversee.
  • CMS clarified its authority to take immediate action to suspend a broker’s or agent’s access to the DE and EDE pathways and their ability to transmit information to the Marketplace when circumstances pose an “unacceptable risk” to enrollees, the accuracy of the Marketplace’s eligibility determinations, or the Marketplace’s information technology systems.

States also oversee insurance agents and brokers. Agents and brokers are required to be licensed in every state where they sell health insurance and are also required to complete the CMS Agent and Broker Federally-facilitated Marketplace (FFM) registration to sell Marketplace plans. To further combat fraud and other deceptive practices, the National Association of Insurance Commissioners (NAIC) reports that every state and the District of Columbia (DC) has made insurance fraud a crime for at least some lines of insurance, and 42 states and DC have insurance fraud bureaus that investigate claims of illegal insurance activities and work to prosecute insurance fraud. The NAIC’s model state law, Unfair Trade Practices Act (Model 880), which describes activities considered “unfair or deceptive acts or practices” in the insurance industry, has been adopted in some form by 45 states and the District of Columbia.

States that operate their own Marketplaces currently have considerable flexibility to establish additional policies and procedures in their Marketplaces for agents and brokers. States can go beyond the requirements set out in federal regulations for oversight. For example, Idaho’s SBM stated that its online platform requires multi-factor authorization and only consumers can add an agent to their account. Massachusetts’s SBM does not use brokers nor does it permit EDEs to enroll consumers. California’s SBM requires that agents be specifically added by the consumer through their consumer portal (or consent can be verified through a three-way call), and consumers can edit and remove permissions on that portal.

Some states have been proactive in law enforcement actions related to Marketplace agent and broker fraud. For example, Massachusetts and California took action related to fraudulent Marketplace enrollments concerning a scheme involving substance use disorder treatment centers a few years ago. Although there have been allegations of Marketplace broker fraud in Florida in recent years, information on recent enforcement activity by the state is not available.

5. Final regulation and budget reconciliation law introduce new paperwork and other enrollment requirements for Marketplace consumers but make few changes to broker oversight.

In the final Marketplace Integrity and Affordability rule, released on June 20, 2025, CMS says that Marketplace fraud occurred due to the widespread availability of zero-dollar out-of-pocket premium plans following the implementation of enhanced premium tax credits and enrollment policy changes during the Biden administration. The final regulation introduces many significant changes to Marketplace enrollment standards, verification processes, and documentation requirements. Some of these changes apply to both the federal Marketplace and state-based marketplaces and many will expire at the end of the 2026 plan year. The 2025 budget reconciliation law includes some related provisions (without an expiration date) as well as some additional enrollment and eligibility changes.

The final regulation addresses concerns about fraud in the Marketplace primarily by implementing stricter consumer-facing verification and eligibility procedures as well as by limiting enrollment opportunities. Some examples of the provisions include:

  • Requiring Marketplaces to generate a data matching inconsistency if a consumer estimates that their income will be between 100% and 400% of the FPL (between $15,650 and $62,600 for a single person in 2025), but IRS data or other data sources show their past income was below 100% of the FPL. Takes effect in August 2025 and expireat the end of the 2026 plan year.
  • No longer requiring Marketplaces to accept an applicant’s or enrollee’s estimate of projected household income when tax return data is unavailable. Under the regulation, Marketplaces will be required to confirm income with other data sources and require that applicants submit documentation that confirms their income. Takes effect in August 2025 and expires at the end of the 2026 plan year.
  • Removing the low-income SEP that allows low-income consumers to enroll in a Marketplace plan during the year if their estimated income is no more than 150% of the FPL ($23,475 for a single person in 2025). Takes effect in August 2025 and expires at the end of the 2026 plan year (see similar, permanent provision below). 
  • Requiring consumers in FFM states who are automatically re-enrolled in a $0-premium plan (because tax credits fully cover their premium) to confirm or update their eligibility during Open Enrollment or face a $5 monthly charge. Applies to the 2026 plan year only and does not apply to SBM states.
  • Shortening the Open Enrollment period so that, for all Marketplaces, Open Enrollment must begin no later than November 1 and end no later than December 31. Begins with the 2027 Open Enrollment period and does not expire. 

Although there are some related provisions in the final regulation and the budget reconciliation law, the law contains several additional provisions related to eligibility and enrollment, which do not expire. For example, the law:

  • Removes APTC repayment limits and requires all enrollees, including those with low incomes, to repay the entirety of any excess premium tax credits that were paid to their insurer. Begins with the 2026 plan year.
  • Prohibits eligibility for APTCs for Marketplace consumers who qualify for special enrollment periods based solely on their income relative to the poverty level, beginning with the 2026 plan year.
  • Eliminates eligibility for APTCs for certain low-income, lawfully present immigrants by excluding individuals such as refugees, asylees, and survivors of human trafficking. Begins in 2027.
  • Establishes new requirements for consumers to verify specific information before they can receive APTCs. This provision could effectively end automatic re-enrollment for most Marketplace consumers. Consumers will still be permitted to enroll in a health plan while awaiting confirmation of eligibility, but they will not receive APTCs until after their eligibility is verified. Begins with the 2028 plan year. 

See this KFF analysis for additional details on the ACA-related provisions in the 2025 budget reconciliation law.

Changes include few reforms to agent and broker oversight. There is only one provision in the final rule that specifically addresses agents and brokers. The final regulation clarifies the standard that CMS must prove to terminate a broker contract as the “preponderance of the evidence” standard of proof. The rule defines “preponderance of the evidence” as proof by evidence that, when compared to opposing evidence, leads to the conclusion that the fact at issue is more likely true than not. This provision appears to be aimed at providing more transparency to agents and brokers about the standard the government will use to determine whether they have breached their contract with CMS or other standards of conduct agents and brokers are required to meet. No reforms to broker and agent oversight are included in the budget reconciliation law.

Dementia: The Numbers Are Climbing but the Risk Is Not

I’ve said it before, and I’ll keep saying it: dementia rates are dropping. There are more cases because there are more older people as a percentage of the population, and age is the biggest risk factor.  But your risk is lower than the risk for your parents’ generation. Most of that risk doesn’t emerge until after age 85. And people are being diagnosed at later ages. That’s according to new research reported by Paula Span in the New York Times and published in JAMA

Want to hold dementia at bay? Check your age bias. Study after study shows that attitudes toward aging affect how our minds and bodies function. People with more positive feelings about aging—fact- rather than fear-based, that is—walk faster, heal quicker, live longer and are less likely to develop dementia—even if they carry the gene that predisposes them to the disease

Much of the research has been conducted by Yale’s Becca Levy, PhD, whose latest finding is remarkable: positive age beliefs help prevent cognitive decline. Not only that, they can reverse it and improve memory. And not only that: participants with more accurate, positive beliefs about aging were also significantly less likely to experience cognitive impairment at all.

Dementia is a wretched disease. We don’t understand what causes it, and we’re nowhere near a cure. We do know that anxiety about dementia is itself a health risk. There’s a lot about growing older that we can’t control. We are in charge of what we know and how we feel about it. 

On the Unsung Pleasures of Very Long Friendships

I made my first real friend when I was 11 and she was 12. Marsha moved in on the block. Soon after, her mother saw my mother in the backyard and said she had a daughter about my age. My mother said, let her come for lunch. Marsha wrote me recently, “Loved your mom. I remember the first time we met and I had lunch at your house. We had grilled cheese w tomato.” That was 72 years ago. 

We had an enriched childhood together. Her jokes cracked me up. We played pickup sticks for hours, practicing the small motor control that would enable us to paint and draw later. We started a “firm” that didn’t do anything, but whose mere name, Morgan and White, let us believe we were real artists and writers. 

We argued about whether the modernist movie theater, the Midwood, was more beautiful than the baroque Loews Kings on Flatbush Avenue. We did puppet theater in her basement for neighborhood kids. We put out a newspaper of our doings called The Little Issue. Only my uncle Jack bought a copy; he paid 25 cents, probably to encourage writing, typing and doing layout. We started a novel that began “Doctor Boshkov pressed the tips of his well-manicured fingers together.” On the anniversary of the day we met, we had an outing to Manhattan.

Marsha visited me in college. She kept me from putting on a hoity-toity North Shore of Boston accent by laughing her head off the first time I tried it on. We shared the travails of dating. We did our first trip to Europe together, living on $5 a day, going our separate ways in museums as art lovers do and telling our finds at dinner.   

After college we never lived in the same city again. She married. I went to various graduate schools, married and settled around Boston. In the child-raising years, we saw little of each other but kept up. When she divorced, her ex-husband kindly called to tell me she would like to hear from me. We picked up the friendship again. I have one of her paintings where I see it every day. When her second husband died, when she moved, we talked more often.  

Nowadays, in our 80s, we email about our kids and grandkids, we discuss independent living and Continuing Care Retirement Communities. She’s as instinctually funny as she ever was. Her Facebook posts are either beautiful or a hoot. “Morgan and White” was a prologue to a working life: “Morgan” became a writer and “White” an artist—under our real names, of course.

I’m averse to nostalgia, I want to share my day to day and my opinions on the world’s current events. But it matters that I remember her parents, and she, mine. Marsha’s still one of my besties. She’s like my cousins—also childhood allies whose lives still crisscross with mine.

I’ve made newer friends, of course. But it’s delightful how many friends from college or graduate school are still lunchtime and Facetime and email pals. Andrea, in Andover, is a friend from college who became a bestie in our middle years, when both of us were starting second careers. 

Some friends are distant in space. Connie is in LA, Penny is in Baltimore, Caroline in Maine. I’m in touch by email with one middle school friend, two high school friends. My women college classmates meet on Zoom once a month. We are more politically alike than we used to be; we are all feminists now. 

Who said, “The last of life, for which the first was made”? It was Browning, of course, from “Rabbi Ben Ezra,” not a very good poem but worth it for this line. We never stop needing the old friends and relatives who have known us through many changes of our life course. Indeed, we cherish them more in later life, as some loved ones die and others move away. 

My granddaughter, starting college, meeting many people, goes through the normal selection and elimination processes. She seems enchanted by the fact that I have kept so many close friends from those youthful years. Being accompanied as she grows up: it must seem miraculous. 

My life course ahead, like everyone’s, is still unknown territory. I prize the companionship, while growing older. And it’s axiomatic that my friends and I have more in common now than we ever did. How could it be otherwise? Anecdote by anecdote, story by story, we add to the Memory Palace we share. 

 

Who Cares: The Hidden Crisis of Caregiving and How We Solve it 

By Emily Kenway – Seal Press, 2023

It is not every day that you read a book that changes your perspective on society at large and the role you play in it. Who Cares: The Hidden Crisis of Caregiving and How We Solve It is an intelligent, eye-opening publication about a world in dire need of caregivers and the inadequacies of support on an international scale. Kenway shares intimate stories of caregivers all over the world, including her own caregiving journey for her mother through a grueling battle with cancer. She thoughtfully outlines the complexities of caregiving as a chronic stressor, a deeply meaningful experience of human connection and, most importantly, a reality of life.

Kenway explores possible solutions that may alleviate the crisis of caregiving, including new technology, government policies, innovative housing solutions and community support. She leaves readers feeling empowered that the solution begins within us. This is a book for everyone—because everyone will give care and need care, if they have not yet already, at some point in their life. 

 

What Do You Say to Someone with Dementia?

I got a call from my neighbor Marion.

“I need to talk to you. My friend Jean was just diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. I want to visit her, but I don’t know what to say to her. What do you say to someone with Alzheimer’s?”

The stigma of Alzheimer’s disease (AD) is so strong, it can lead us to imagine that, once diagnosed, a person changes almost overnight. We can’t help wondering, what will she be like now?

I told Marion, “Jean will still be Jean. If you just keep that in mind, you’ll be treating her in ways that show that you still value her friendship as you always did. That’s what she needs most right now.”

“But,” Marion asked, “should I say, ‘I hear you have Alzheimer’s?’”

“I’d give her a chance to bring it up first. If she doesn’t, try saying, ‘I heard about your diagnosis. I just want you to know, if you want to talk about it, I’m glad to listen. If not, that’s OK too.’”

One man, himself recently diagnosed, said, ”People are not sure how to respond when the topic comes up. Most of them change the subject or attribute my symptoms to aging and say, ‘I forget things too.’”

Such discomfort is very common and understandable. But tragically, it leads to the person diagnosed being ignored. And it dismisses their very real and frightening trouble remembering.

Family members and friends need to know that people diagnosed with AD or any other dementia are sensitive. Their feelings can be hurt, and they are often lonely. Jean needs her friends to be with her, to show her she is still important to them.

How we engage people with dementia reveals–often unwittingly—a lot about what we think of them. Are we distracted, because we don’t think they have anything interesting to say, and we’re essentially pretending to listen? Or do we listen actively, letting them know we want to understand, because what they say is important to us?

As the disease progresses, people living with dementia need the patience and good listening skills of others because AD may make it increasingly hard for them to communicate. 

But the people around them face dilemmas they have no preparation for. Many of their natural ways of responding and interacting get them into trouble.

Here are some tips to help you avoid unintended outcomes: 

Don’t say, “Do you remember…?” They may not be able to. If you want to reminisce about a time you were together, say, “I remember when we went fishing in Maine, and you were the only one who caught a fish!” In that way you may spark a memory without putting them on the spot.

Make eye contact and listen with all you have. As one woman with AD told her caregivers, “Listen with the ears of your heart.” 

Don’t interrupt, because if you do, the person may not be able to pick up the thread of their thoughts again.

Don’t exclude the person when you’re having conversations with others. This can happen even though you’re not aware of it. Be proactive about inclusion!

Be patient. Dementia can make it hard for people to find the right word. You can supply the word if you know it, and they don’t take offense. You might say, “Shall I guess?” One woman was so comfortable with her friends that when she was stuck for a word, she could say, “What’s that big water thing?” And someone would guess, “The ocean?” People living with AD sometimes invent new words for common objects or rely on gestures instead of speech. They may take longer to pull their thoughts together. Give them time and quiet; don’t distract them.

Don’t argue. There’s a maxim in the Alzheimer’s community, “If you argue with someone with Alzheimer’s, you get what you deserve.” That is, a major meltdown. But more important, by arguing you are eroding their sense of security and their self-esteem—both of which are fragile in view of their many losses. Don’t criticize or correct them, even when you’re obviously right. Just let it go.

Don’t condescend to them by using elderspeak—“Come dearie, let’s get dressed”—or baby-talk. They will rightly be offended.

Don’t ask open-ended questions. “What would you like for dinner?” is unanswerable for someone who can no longer remember which foods one eats at dinner or what they’re called. You can ask instead, “Would you like chicken or spaghetti for dinner?” You’re still giving them a choice, but it’s a choice they can make. When even two choices become too much, say, “I know you love chicken. Shall we have chicken for dinner?”

Be honest if you don’t understand. Say, “I’m having trouble understanding. Can you help me?” That tells the person you care about what they are trying to say and want to work with them.

Following these guidelines will help create a safe and supportive environment where the person with dementia is valued, enabled and included. In such surroundings, they may surprise you with their ability to understand and communicate. 

Alan Dienstag, PhD, is a psychologist who has worked with people with AD in support groups. He continued to work with one woman long after her language was too impaired to be in a group. But eventually it became harder to connect with her and she seemed to have lost all language. Their last visit was just before he was set to go on vacation to the beach.

He knew she loved the seaside too, so he said to her, “Ann, I’m going to the beach. I’m going to be away for a while.” Her face lit up. 

“What do you love about the beach?” he asked. 

She was quiet for a long time, and he lost hope that she could answer.

But then she turned to him and said, “There’s a certain kind of music there.”

At the Heart of Good Care

This is the last in a series of five blogs about nursing home care.

My old friend Billy called me recently to ask:

“What the hell is ‘person-centered care’ supposed to mean? I toured three nursing homes and each of them gave a different answer.”

Billy’s wife has vascular dementia, and it’s getting too difficult for him to handle her care at home. 

“I had been told to choose a home that gives person-centered care,” he told me, “but one home described that as ‘the person comes first’ though they couldn’t say exactly what that meant. Another said the person could choose what they wanted to eat at every meal. And the last one said they learn from the family all the person’s quirks and try to work around them.” 

Billy had stumbled upon the confusion that surrounds person-centered care. Although the term itself has become ubiquitous, sometimes it amounts to little more than a marketing tool. 

Institutions are slow and reluctant to change. True person-centered care overturns the relationship between the resident, the caregiver and the institution. It is based on what’s important to the one being cared for rather than what’s convenient for the organization. Consequently, it’s hard to implement and thus hard to find perfect examples.

But increasing numbers of care homes are making an effort to move in that direction, as shown in the responses to Billy’s question. What follows here will help you understand the basis of person-centered care, and how to recognize it even when it’s only partially implemented.

The first barrier to this kind of enlightened care is the widespread stigma affecting people living with any kind of dementia. Two private duty aides working for a good friend of mine assured me one day that my friend, who did not have dementia, was much better off at home because nursing homes were full of “demented people who don’t know anything anymore. There’s nothing inside their heads.” 

Care homes must screen their prospective staff for any sign of attitudes like those that devalue people living with cognitive disorders, because the way we view people affects how we treat them.

Good care begins with respect. That’s what is missing also in the following interactions.

We’ve all probably seen a worker in a busy nursing home come up to someone in a wheelchair, release the brakes and wheel them off somewhere without a word of greeting or any hint about where they’re headed. That amounts to treating someone like an object, not a valued human being. 

Janice arrived one morning to find an aide dressing her mother. She knew her mother could do most of it herself, but the caregiver had seven other people to dress that morning and said it was faster to do it all herself. 

Not allowing someone to use the abilities she has is disempowerment. 

In good care, the person is more important than the task. If supporting the person’s strengths is highly valued and the task comes second, the caregiver will facilitate the resident dressing herself. This takes time and wreaks havoc in an institution where workers are expected to check off jobs-completed against a clock.  

Person-centered care becomes a partnership in which an activity, such as getting dressed, is done with the person, not to or for them. In that way, familiarity and connection are established.

The family plays an important part in helping the staff understand their loved one’s history and likes and dislikes.

When my mother was living in a nursing home late in her dementia, I compiled a history of her life in photographs and hung it in her room. The attention and enthusiasm it drew from her care partners made me regret that I hadn’t done it much sooner.

The picture of the resident is further filled out by learning her preferences. Her choices—when to wake, when and what to eat, and when to go to bed—are what determine her schedule, not the convenience of the institution.

New residents who continue on a schedule like the one they have followed most of their adult lives adjust more easily to living in a new environment. And having choices maintains some of their autonomy. 

The crucial thing to observe when you tour a memory-care unit is the relationship between staff and residents. Does the care partner engage the resident, calling her by name and in a warm manner? Is her tone natural, rather than an “elder speak” version of baby talk? Does the resident look relaxed and engaged? Do they often look into each other’s eyes?

Such a relationship is close to impossible to establish without dedicated staffing. Most care homes rotate their staff. That is, they move workers around from one unit in the building to another. That interferes with close relationships forming between resident and caregiver. With a dedicated staff, a resident has the same care partner every day.

That continuity fosters the close connections that are essential to someone with dementia. It ends their isolation, gives them a sense of security and trust, and creates a sense of belonging.

And the care partner feels more satisfaction: knowing the resident better, she is more able to solve problems, is more alert to new problems and simply cares more.

Anna had been Sam’s care partner for two years. His verbal communication was compromised, but because she knew him so well, she was able to understand his gestures and facial expressions.

She returned to work one Monday morning and learned that over the weekend, Sam had struck out at an aide trying to bathe him. A different care home might have resorted to giving him an antipsychotic drug. But this home knew to wait until Anna came back; she would solve it.

Anna suspected that the weekend aide had not respected Sam’s strong need for privacy. First, she checked him gently and carefully for any signs of pain, and when she found none, she left instructions that Sam should not be bathed on weekends.

A helper who cares—and is well-trained—will see a forceful expression as an attempt to communicate, rather than disruptive behavior. 

Dedicated staffing is a big factor contributing to successful person-centered care. It encourages relationships that benefit residents and staff, and it increases staff retention.    

In ”Dementia Beyond Disease,” G. Allen Power, MD, who specializes in dementia care, writes, “Any organization that does not provide dedicated assignments offers a lower quality of care than they could otherwise. End of discussion.”

If you can’t find a care home with dedicated staffing, be sure to choose one that has a low staff turnover rate.

The needs of a person with dementia—for security, trust, affection, a bit of control, connection, meaning—are all best met in the context of relationship.

A mutually caring relationship is at the very heart of humane care.

Workers who are open to close relationships with people in a memory unit are valued and respected. And they in turn treat residents with care and respect. You can pick up on that good will when you visit.

I remember arriving at my mother’s nursing home to visit her, and being greeted warmly by the receptionist and everyone I passed. I found my mother in the activities room, happily stroking a sleeping puppy on her lap. The nurse had brought in her own new pet especially to share with my mother. I thought how lucky my mother and I were to be part of this community of kindness.

I wish that for you and your loved one too.

Choosing a Home That Cares 

Ted, now 73, was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s two years ago. His wife, Andrea, attends a caregiver support group I lead. 

Recently she told the group, “I know it’s early and my husband is far from needing a nursing home now, but when I read all this stuff about nursing homes being understaffed and giving terrible care, I swear I’ll never put him in one. But then I think of what you in the group have said—that I may reach a point where I simply can’t do it anymore. So then I think I better start looking now, because a good home is going to be almost impossible to find. It all makes me feel so hopeless, I don’t do anything.”

Andrea isn’t alone. The high death rate in nursing homes during the pandemic and their continuing staffing problems have a lot of families feeling more reluctant than ever to trust others with their loved one’s care.

It’s true that understaffing is widespread and makes finding good long term care harder, but it can be found. Here’s how to begin your search. 

Start early! When someone suffers from a dementing illness, a slow decline is likely, allowing enough time to find a good nursing home. But an unforeseen event—a stroke or an accident—can happen and could force you to make a quick decision. 

Think carefully about the kind of care your loved one needs. 

Three levels of long-term residential care are commonly available: skilled nursing, assisted living and memory care. 

Skilled nursing facilities are for people with medical problems who need the attention of registered nurses and certified nursing assistants. Some skilled nursing homes accept patients with dementia. Being medical facilities, they are regulated by federal rules. Inspections, however, fall to the state they’re in, and the thoroughness varies. Because skilled nursing requires a professional staff, it costs more than lower levels of care.

Assisted living homes serve people who need some assistance, for instance with bathing, dressing, medications or meals, but not total care. Many require the person entering to be able to walk and assist in some of their care. You need to carefully check the staff’s ability to give dementia care. 

Generally staffed by licensed practical nurses and certified nurses’ aides and often homier than skilled facilities, assisted living homes are not regulated by the federal government but only through state agencies—like the health department.

Memory Care is most often given in a unit that’s entirely for people with dementia. The care is similar to what residents get in assisted living, enhanced to provide what dementia requires. The label can mean many different things. It can indicate merely that they will accept people with dementia. Or it can mean they offer care in an environment designed specifically to ease the experience of those with cognitive decline and have a staff well-trained in dementia care. Usually, memory care amounts to something in between. 

When you consider placing your loved one anywhere, ask yourself, what do they need help with? What level of care do they need? Are there behaviors that you have learned to work around? You will want the assurance that the staff at a memory unit has been trained to handle that.

Because of the stigma associated with nursing homes, you may feel more comfortable telling people, “My mom’s in assisted living.” But if she needs skilled care—or memory care—she won’t get the kind of attention she needs in ordinary assisted living.

Find out whether a facility you’re considering is for-profit or nonprofit. The difference can have consequences for your loved one’s care.

For-profit homes more frequently make the news for gross negligence, due to putting earnings above adequate care. But there are exceptions. Two of the for-profit, memory-care units near where my support group meets are excellent. Much of their success comes from the fact that they were designed from the start for dementia care—from their physical layout to the training of their staff. 

Nonprofits are often mission driven, not motivated to make money for shareholders. Their mission might be to serve others; some have a religious affiliation. The mission of the excellent nonprofit organization Kendal is “to transform the experience of aging.”

Consider a home’s location and cost as you investigate your choices. Andrea began her search for eventual long term care for Ted right in the support group by asking the other members what determined which home they chose for their family member. Memory care was primary, followed by distance and cost.

Those are good measures to use as you start your search. Try to find a good place within 15 or 20 minutes of your house so it will be convenient to visit. I needed to travel 35 minutes to get to the excellent home I found for my mother, and that meant I visited two or three times a week rather than three or four. (I mention cost below.)

Your local Area Agency on Aging can give you a list of local facilities, as can the local chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association. Your state’s long term care ombudsman—an official advocate for residents in care homes—can at least steer you away from the worst facilities.

Visit residences that seem like good possibilities. Once you have several well-recommended homes that meet your needs regarding location and level of care, call them and speak to the person in charge of admissions, now usually called the director of marketing.

Verify that the facility gives dementia care and ask how their staff is trained to work with that population. To assess what they tell you, check the Alzheimer’s Association’s list of recognized training programs.

Ask about the cost and what is included. A top-notch, for-profit dementia care home is going to be expensive. Excellent care is sometimes given for less in nonprofit homes.

Find out if the rate increases as the resident needs more care.

Make an appointment to visit any homes that sound like good possibilities. Your visit will include a tour and a meeting with the marketing director, when you can ask all the questions you have. Unless you are under pressure to find a place, don’t do more than one in a day. You’ll need time to sort through what you have learned. Be sure to pay a second visit to any that you don’t reject on the first round. You can’t possibly see all that’s important in one visit.

You can find online check lists of what to look for and questions to ask on a nursing home visit, but the very best source is the book The 36-Hour Day: A Family Guide to Caring for People Who Have Alzheimer Disease and Other Dementias by Nancy L. Mace and Peter V. Rabins. Almost all libraries have a copy.

It has often been called the caregiver’s bible. A reference work, it covers almost everything a dementia caregiver might need to know. The only caveat is that it includes a lot you don’t need to know because there are lots of things that won’t happen to your loved one and you on this journey. It’s best for consulting when you have a question or a problem arises. 

There is no ideal care home. You will need to compromise. Your task is to find the best one available for your loved one.

An important part of your search will be learning what constitutes good dementia care. Once you know that, bad care won’t be hard to spot.

To be continued in my next blog, “At the Heart of Good Care.”

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